One Life, Three Names一個生命,三個名字
Ten years ago, we put down roots under the name 有機心田.
十年前,我們以「有機心田」的名字扎根。
Today the same life carries three names: me2us2WE, 有機心田, and Maturing in Grace.
今天,同一個生命有三個名字:me2us2WE、有機心田、Maturing in Grace。
me2us2WE means moving from “me,” to “us,” and finally to “WE”—growing together in unity.
me2us2WE 的意思是:從我,到我們,到我們一起——在合一中成長。
From the very first day, the root has been one verse:
從第一天起,我們的根就是這一節經文:
The Same Wound, Again and Again同一種傷,一再出現
Over these ten years, we kept seeing the same deep wounds in the way people connect.
這十年,我們一再遇見同一種傷:依戀關係的重創。
These wounds affect how people connect with themselves, with others, and especially with God.
依戀關係的創傷,影響到個人與自己的連結、與他人的連結,更別提與神的連結了。
If we do not face these wounds, knowledge alone can become a trap.
如果不直面這個問題,只停留在知識層面,知識反而成為困境。
We saw it in people hurt by those closest to them. We saw it where authority was abused in religious settings. We saw it among people serving together who were afraid to speak honestly.
那些被「重要他人」傷害的人。那些在宗教系統裡被濫用權柄的人。那些當同工卻不敢說真話的人。
Who Are the “Significant Others” in My Life?誰是我生命中的「重要他人」?
Our inner maturity may be very different from our age in years. In the childhood stage, we learn one vital lesson: life grows from “me” to “me and others.”
在情緒年齡(內在生命的成熟度,和身體的年齡可以差很遠)的兒童期,最關鍵的功課是:中心從「我」,移到「我與他人」。
Here is the hard part. Our “significant others” are the people closest to us, and they are sometimes the ones with whom we feel least safe. Some take advantage of us. Some harm us. Some try to control us in the name of “love.”
問題來了——我們生命中的「重要他人」,常常是最不安全的人。可能是掠奪者,可能是施暴者,可能是打著「愛」的名義控制你的人。
So we relearn, together:
所以我們一起重新學習:
- What does a truly safe “other” look like?什麼是真正安全的「他人」?
- How do I become a safe person in my relationships?我如何在關係中成為安全的人?
- How can we grow in unity while each person carries their own part?我們如何走在合一裡,而不滑進依賴?
A Different Picture of Maturity成熟不是你想的那樣
Many of us picture maturity as “not needing anyone anymore” — handling everything alone, untouched by emotion.
大多數人以為成熟就是「不再需要別人」——能夠獨自面對一切,不被情緒影響。
Along the way, we have seen another picture of maturity. Maturity says, “I need help.” Maturity lets others see the real me. Maturity means learning responsibility and love within a community.
我們在路上看見的,不太一樣:成熟,是承認「我需要幫助」;成熟,是願意讓別人看見真實的我;成熟,是在群體中一起學會負責與愛。
No one should walk this road alone.
沒有人應該獨自走完這條路。
What Moves In After the House Is Swept?屋子打掃乾淨以後,住進來的是什麼?
Clearing out the pain is only half of it. A house swept clean and left empty does not stay empty for long.
只清空傷痛,只做了一半。打掃乾淨卻空著的屋子,不會空太久。
So we walk together in a safe community, rebuilding a true and lasting bond with our Heavenly Father.
所以我們一起重建:重建真正的依戀關係——與天父,在安全的群體裡。
Read: Why is change so hard? The empty house →讀〈為什麼改變這麼難?空屋困境〉→
What We Believe我們的信念
- Emotional maturity means coming home to the relational blueprint God designed.情緒成熟,是回到神設計的關係藍圖。
- Discipleship passes on knowledge through a life lived together.門訓傳遞的,除了知識,還有生命。
- A mature, united community is the best soil for healing and growth.成熟合一的群體,是醫治與成長最好的土壤。
Our Spiritual Parents我們的屬靈父母
With grateful hearts we want to introduce two special people: Bruce and Beth. Since 2016, they have been an indispensable part of our journey.
我們懷著感恩的心,向大家介紹兩位特別的人:Bruce 和 Beth。從 2016 年開始,他們就成為我們路程中不可或缺的一部分。
Their care reached beyond me personally, to our whole community family. Couples, single co-workers, team members — they cared for each one with a parent's love.
他們的關愛不只是對我個人,更是對我們整個社群大家庭的深切關懷。無論是夫妻、單身同工,還是團隊成員,他們都用父母般的愛心去關心每一個人。
Their wisdom, encouragement, and prayer have always been a real strength on the road ahead.
他們的智慧、鼓勵和禱告支持,一直是我們前進路上的重要力量。
Bruce has gone home to the Lord. We deeply thank God for spiritual parents who truly lived out the love of Christ.
Bruce 已經回到主那裡。我們為有這樣真實活出基督之愛的屬靈父母,深深感謝神。
Is This You?這是你嗎?
- You serve others, and you feel exhausted.你在服事中,感到疲憊。
- You notice you are running faster than God.你發現自己跑得比神還快。
- You live inside relationships that do not feel safe.你活在不安全的關係裡。
- You are a peacock, longing to go through the fire and become a phoenix.你是隻孔雀,渴望經歷火煉,成為鳳凰。
A community is waiting to welcome you. Here, no one has to pretend to be mature. We can be real, grow in unity, and mature together.
這裡有一個群體,為你預備。在這裡不用表演「成熟」——我們真實地,在合一中,一起開始成熟。